Big Question of Relationship?????????

What is it that attracts a man to a woman ??and Why does things change over time..

I think its because our appetite for love starts visually with the size of my boobs and the roundness of my ass and the sparkle in my eyes and the rating of” sexy woman”.

And then starts the journey when eyes are visually happy to when the mind is looking for the answer..is he the one???or Is she the one..??or Is she hot in the bed ??or how many girl friends he had before..

NO..I should say a big no..we all start on the wrong foot..The problem is in today’s world definition of love has been altered to simple parameters and adjustment to these parameters.. 

A girl or a boy who is simple,honest loyal,a real good one is not appreciated how much a naughty,demanding,plastic individual would be..because most people run behind individual they think would make them feel loved instead you have to be love with yourself..No body can make you feel what you cannot feel yourself.

Because we all want to love someone..whom we like and whom we fancy and wish to have..Instead of simply being in love..instead of simply waiting for right things to come to us..We all just rush to feel nothing but emptiness in the end.

I am a loser in the area of love and relationships.Most men have not thought of me except when they get booty call..hehe..Now that’s funny because I want to be loved and so my every experience becomes sensual and romantic for me..Instead my partners never feel the same like me..and I always wonder why is that ..I realize that’s because I wanted to emanate happiness in their life and they sucked all the pleasure in a black hole..No happiness comes out of such a relationship..

So whats the conclusion of all this I may not have my heart stuck up into the same heart before I ever was in love.But I have the knowledge and experience to understand that I should never have done the same mistake I did every time..”To be in love meant for me to love someone and be loved in return and feel the completeness”which is not the truth.The real meaning of being loved is “When you are happy and someone really wants to add to your happiness every moment of your life not to fill his/her emptiness but because that also emanates happiness for him/her and around..Love is not a relation..its a emotion ,a energy which beats inside us..and we cannot find it in other..”…

True love would be two people sharing the love they have in them and instead not find the person who would make me feel loved..